Well, it finally arrived and I an official resident! This is what it looks like and it allows me to stay and work legally.
This is not easy to get as so called "Dritt-länder". This literally means 3rd Worlder. I never thought of myself like that but the Swiss see themselves as level 1 and any EU citizens at level 2 and everyone else is level 3. Oh, well it means we can start our life here and we are looking forward to the day when we are all here.